Just received an email from Apple stating my order has shipped and will arrive on the 15th. Too bad no one will be home to sign for it. Hopefully I will be able to pick it up from FedEx later in the day.
call FEDEX 1 800 number. they can divert to a local FEDEX/Kinkos and have the ability to let the driver know to divert to that store even after he has left their distribution center; as long as he has not attempted delivery already at your residence. They also will let you divert to FEDEX/Kinkos without first making an attempt at your home. If they have made an attempt at your home typically they will tell you that the earliest you can pick up at FEDEX diistro center or divert to FEDEX/Kinkos is the next delivery day.
UPS requires an attempted delivery at the address listed with the merchant, unless the merchant approves a change in delivery address, even if it a UPS store, etc.
I prefer UPS over FEDEX in most instances, but for something I need and am not able to stick around house to wait then FEDEX works better. that being said, i'm friends with my UPS driver and often text him and meet him on his route somewhere when it works for both of us.